How can I tell if I am gay?

Girl don't analyse yourself so deeply and take my word for that. Nobody but you will be able to answer the question on your sexuality as it is yours alone to decide. Take a step back and look at it objectively, the girl crush thing and gay/straight/bi don't really matter right now. You can't just be put into a little organised box and ticked off with a preference. If you aren't sure who you are right now just relax. You have to experience your life one day at a time and make the decision that is right for you. Equally important is that you should not repress your feelings because you want to conform to any 'normality' Normal does not exist except the normality of self and as we are all unique normal is nothing. If you felt you wanted to kiss this girl and she wanted to reciprocate then who is getting hurt? I spent 18 years repressing my feelings and only admitted to myself that I was gay aged 32. I had spent almost 15 years in relationships with women. I always knew in my heart that I preffered men but I was scared of what people would think of me. I will tell you my friends and family accepted it and I am now a more balanced and markedly less frustrated person. Whatever decision you make regarding your sexuality will affect your life in one way or another. If your decision is the right one and you make that decision whilst you are still young then you will have a happier life as a whole. Gay/straight/bi whatever the decision you make I hope you find the answer and the life you seek xxx